I think all women (and all men) should be given a reality check: you are not attractive enough to be a glamour model or "WAG". Men should be told they will not bag that bird with the ginormous rack, unless she's fat!

In fact, I'm reminded of this: "Oh, son, don’t overreach! Go for the dented car, the dead-end job, the less attractive girl!"

Wise words.

I disagree - Aim for the stars - but be realistic about your chance to reach them

That's not been my experience.

Same here but then since they are not my thing an ex loved the fact that I would talk to her face rather than her chest.

Most of my ex's who were bestowed with heavenly charms were, in the main, very proud of them.

In general though I've always gone for self-assured and self-confident women. If anything they've wanted to make sure I'm happy rather than wanting to check my bank balance.

I guess the therapy I offer would bankrupt most of them if they'd had to have paid for it so they've seen it as a good deal.