They could certainly get some costs for rearranging the wedding and those could exceed £10000. Plus the humiliation. In business snobbery has no place. If people are willing to shell out what you are asking then you should have to accept it, or never take the booking or deposit in the first place. Most decent wedding venues could be booked up months or even years in advance.
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