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Marriage becoming middle class institution, Tories warn 
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In his Guardian interview, Mr Willetts warned changes in attitudes to marriage were "extremely dangerous".

"The aspiration of marriage is becoming harder to achieve," he said.

"Instead of it becoming just what you do in your 20s, it has become like scaling Mount Everest, a sort of great moral endeavour - and something that requires a lot of time and money. We think we need to ease some of the pressures.

"There is quite a lot of evidence coming from America about how we are in danger of heading towards a society where middle-class people get married and people on low and erratic incomes don't get married, and that in turn leads to a divergence of a whole host of other outcomes.

"In my view it would be extremely dangerous if marriage became something only for the affluent elite and that is what will happen, unless we try to get some kind of policy that restores it as a more widespread institution as we had in the past."


I didn't know where I stood on this until I read that. Why should marriage just be about something you do when you're younger, especially since you might not have a clue what you're really about as a person? :lol:

Then there's calling it a moral endeavour - isn't that exactly what it's supposed to be about, especially in the 'loving someone' sense? :?

Marriage just isn't going to solve underlying problems, hell, it could make them even worse in some cases :roll:

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Wed Dec 23, 2009 2:53 pm
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"Instead of it becoming just what you do in your 20s, it has become like scaling Mount Everest, a sort of great moral endeavour - and something that requires a lot of time and money. We think we need to ease some of the pressures.


Bring back the married peoples allowance.

Sh1t, too late, i'm divorced. :lol:

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Great, our next government is going to be a bunch of fools who can't differentiate between cause, effect and mere correlation... we are doomed chaps.

If I had attempted marriage in my 20s, the unfortunate lady would have had to either divorce me or poison me by now.


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ShockWaffle wrote:
Great, our next government is going to be a bunch of fools who can't differentiate between cause, effect and mere correlation...

Doesn't sound much different to the current one.

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Perhaps the Government could alter the benefits system so it is no longer as profitable for the dad to move out. I remember reading in the Observer not long ago that it takes up until the family is bringing in £24k for it to be financially worth the dad sticking about. £24k is around the median wage. :cry:

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ShockWaffle wrote:
Great, our next government is going to be a bunch of fools who can't differentiate between cause, effect and mere correlation...

Doesn't sound much different to the current one.

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Spreadie wrote:
l3v1ck wrote:
ShockWaffle wrote:
Great, our next government is going to be a bunch of fools who can't differentiate between cause, effect and mere correlation...

Doesn't sound much different to the current one.

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