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Author:  Amnesia10 [ Fri May 21, 2010 1:12 pm ]
Post subject:  being happier than your wife could end in divorce

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Married men be warned – being happier than your wife could end in divorce

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/7746 ... vorce.html

Using data from tens of thousands of relationships in three different countries, they discovered that the bigger the difference in the happiness of husbands and wives the greater the risk of a break-up.
Crucially, this effect was seen only when the husband was feeling better about life than his wife.
And in those cases, it was more likely that the unhappy wife would start divorce proceedings.
The finding was made after experts looked at previous economic and "lifestyle satisfaction" studies of people living in Britain, Germany and Australia.
The happiness gap widened when wives were lumbered with most of the housework, if they had different social backgrounds to their husbands, or if they had higher than average incomes.

Well that will upset those pushing for higher women's wages. It will just push up their divorce rate.

Author:  pcernie [ Fri May 21, 2010 2:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: being happier than your wife could end in divorce

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Married men be warned – being happier than your wife could end in divorce


Who didn't think that was a possibility? :lol:

You think it's why there's so much nagging going on, to maintain a 'balance'? ;)

Author:  Amnesia10 [ Fri May 21, 2010 2:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: being happier than your wife could end in divorce

Maybe men handle unhappiness better than women. Maybe women believe the the grass is greener attitude?

Author:  jonbwfc [ Tue May 25, 2010 1:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: being happier than your wife could end in divorce

Amnesia10 wrote:
Maybe men handle unhappiness better than women.

Would it be cynical to suggest that it might be because a lot of the unhappiness in men's lives is caused by the women they are in relationships with, whereas the reverse is not equally true? I swear, I've been in relationships with women who, if there wasn't something wrong, would go out of their way to find/make something wrong.

Amnesia10 wrote:
Maybe women believe the the grass is greener attitude?

Everyone has that to a degree. However I suspect the statistics would show that a lot of men will stay in a relationship they are not particularly happy in because men are inherently more lazy in their relationships. Whereas women are less likely to put up with a relationship they're not happy in. Of course, the UK's woefully unbalanced divorce legislation may also have something to do with that...

Author:  Amnesia10 [ Tue May 25, 2010 2:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: being happier than your wife could end in divorce

jonbwfc wrote:
Amnesia10 wrote:
Maybe women believe the the grass is greener attitude?

Everyone has that to a degree. However I suspect the statistics would show that a lot of men will stay in a relationship they are not particularly happy in because men are inherently more lazy in their relationships. Whereas women are less likely to put up with a relationship they're not happy in. Of course, the UK's woefully unbalanced divorce legislation may also have something to do with that...

I think that is a bigger factor. Some women will walk on a relationship that might have a few flaws to find something better. It depends on age and whether they think they can get pulled by another bloke. That said I have known some young women who have stuck in really [LIFTED] relationships because they were in love. Divorce is a factor when they think that they can come out of it ahead.

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