strange thread name? it makes sense when I explain, to put a weird story short last month I ordered an Irish rally DVD from the people I buy from every year as they make a "best of" a month later my order still doesn't arrive so I contact him asking and hes saying
Im confused why he refunded me all my money for the DVD when he said hes going to send out another? I feel bad now and I dont want to take this dvd for free

dunno if its rude or not if I will say to him that theres no reason for refund and getting the dvd free when he will send out and hopefully it arrives this time
Is it appropiate to want to pay for it? so the tennis thing ive sent him cash now hes sent it back now I want to send him it AGAIN
