It's tough dealing with death on any level, but when it's a close friend you can feel it more keenly. Don't worry about any stoical stereotypes, just feel whatever you fell, try not to punish yourself and don't pre-determine a time to "get over it." Grief touches people differently so you'll handle it in whichever way is best for you.
_________________The Official "Saucy Minx"

This above all: To Thine Own Self Be True
"Red sky at night, Shepherds Delight"..Which is a bit like Shepherds Pie, but with whipped topping instead of mashed potato.