Who never asked who? Or should that be whom?

Are you talking about Kxrkukrxkukrx, Bratty or another one of the "Can't talk to girls" brigade?

well the girl I bebo'd changed her status from single to "in a relationship" and has ignored my message as expected, everyone up here is so goddamn ignorant which makes me sick whats the point in me asking any girl out?

Bratty, don't give up on them, well maybe her, but still, keep looking man!

It is worth it when you find a good one honestly

It's a tactic to avoid attention.



Then she's very rude and needs to get her head of her arse.



Because one will say 'Yes please.'

Look at it this way, when you apply for a job, do you apply for just one and assume that because you didn't get that one, you won't get any?




I should probably take my own advice...

Reading your post, I was about to say something, but then I notice you actually thought about it

My problem is finding a girl I'm interested in. Few and very far between, sadly.

ditto

well, all the girls i like think im scary, and all the girls who like me, i think are scary. so really my only choice is whether i want to be the scaree or the scarer

I meant on the job front!

But I know EXACTLY what you mean about the girl thing

Oh the job thing's far more complicated. I'm either unqualified or over qualified. Very few places here do what I do. So I'm trying to start doing my own thing.

As far as girls go, very few that I'm interested in. I've met a few that I've thought I could like, but I've got to know them a bit better and nope, nothing there in terms of chemistry. Just couldn't see myself being involved with them in anyway.
Also, there's the whole 'unemployed depressive 32 year old living in his parents basement' thing; as Groucho said, I don't want to be a member of any club that'd have me.

hm well I got a tiny update sortof, The Katie girl I mentioned a while ago who said would go out with me for a drink if she was 18 as she is 17 now I think, I haven't seen her in months as shes busy with exams etc and working. was at the youth cafe today and spoke to my friend who is a closer friend to katie than me and I was asking about Katie how she is etc, and she says to me "Katie likes you btw" out of the blue and I said "what do you mean by that?" and she says "katie likes you" and just smiled and so I was just left speechless as when she said it second time she was on her way to her office for a few minutes whilst I waited at the pc room/kitchen, so....... not sure what to think atm

er you should be thinking "cool Katie likes me" and then deciding what to do about it.
In my experiance when another girl says a friend of theres likes you and doesnt collapse in tears of laughter it usually means, she actually likes you and its up to you to do something about it.
So if your interested go for it tiger!!!!!

Bratty, when I was at uni a girl basically said 'my friend likes you.' (she wasn't a bad 'un either lol. I may have even put a pic or two on the random photo thread)

Its now 6 years later and we're engaged and expecting a baby!

If you're a bit nervous about talking to her yourself either get her number and text her or tell the friend to tell her that 'you like her too!'

RESULT! Congrats man!

Cheers. Although the baby is due at Christmas. When I tell people they say 'oooo when at Christmas?' and I say 'Christmas!' lol. Looks like I'll be having xmas dinner in the hospital cafe.