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timark_uk
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Location: Belfast
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Find the right person and there's no stress involved at all, at least that's the way it was for me. Mark
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Zippy
Spends far too much time on here
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^^ This! CW, whatever the plans, you're asking her to share your life as an equal partner on a permanent basis, there's going to be far more going on when you get to the actual wedded part, so if you're over-thinking this part as much as you appear to be, you'll be a basket case on the wedding day  If you plan it down to the last second she'll have wind of what you're up to long before you get to the question, if you want that then 'as you were' but if you want to surprise her then you're going to have to wing it a bit. _________________The Official "Saucy Minx"  This above all: To Thine Own Self Be True "Red sky at night, Shepherds Delight"..Which is a bit like Shepherds Pie, but with whipped topping instead of mashed potato.
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TheFrenchun
Officially Mrs saspro
Joined: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:55 pm
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Location: on the naughty step
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But we still want a full report afterwards Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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veato
I haven't seen my friends in so long
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Location: Nottingham
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We bought wedding rings from the Jewellery Quarter in Birmingham.
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saspro
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We need updates!
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cloaked_wolf
What's a life?
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I had a chat with my sister over the weekend about a few things. Slight change in plans but will see how things go next week.
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saspro
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cloaked_wolf
What's a life?
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_________________He fights for the users.
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Zippy
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Is it a cunning plan??  _________________The Official "Saucy Minx" This above all: To Thine Own Self Be True "Red sky at night, Shepherds Delight"..Which is a bit like Shepherds Pie, but with whipped topping instead of mashed potato.
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TheFrenchun
Officially Mrs saspro
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rise of the mobzillaJust advance warning Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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Zippy
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I guess it entirely depends on your relationship with your Mother. I didn't have any trouble at all with either my Mother or Red's, both had an amazing day and were a lovely help, definitely not a hindrance.
My advice to couples getting married is always the same:
1. Remember the wedding is about both of you - brides tend to get carried away organising the wedding of *their* dreams, without taking into account the wants of their intended.
2. Remember the wedding is about both of you - nobody else gets to dictate how you spend your big day. Do what you *both* want to do and step firmly on the neck of anyone who tries to tell you what to do!
_________________The Official "Saucy Minx" This above all: To Thine Own Self Be True "Red sky at night, Shepherds Delight"..Which is a bit like Shepherds Pie, but with whipped topping instead of mashed potato.
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rustybucket
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Thu Jun 18, 2009 5:10 pm
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This. Want to give us money for the wedding? Great! You still don't get any say in anything. Our wedding, our rules. _________________Jim
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TheFrenchun
Officially Mrs saspro
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Location: on the naughty step
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You're marrying Wolfie? 
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rustybucket
I haven't seen my friends in so long
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I didn't want to ruin the surprise. _________________Jim
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TheFrenchun
Officially Mrs saspro
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Congratulations! 
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