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okenobi
Spends far too much time on here
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 6:59 pm Posts: 4932 Location: Sestriere, Piemonte, Italia
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Fill me in.....
I've always been the "complicated" type with very few of what other people would call "relationships" and a fair few "things that kinda happened". But I've never had a one night stand. It came up at dinner last night (new reps arrived for the winter, so yeah, that stuff always comes up sharpish) and there were only a couple of us who hadn't ever done it.
What's it about? Good/bad/indifferent/pros/cons, I'm intrigued.....
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 8:37 am |
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oceanicitl
Official forum cat lady
Joined: Fri Apr 24, 2009 8:04 am Posts: 11039 Location: London
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Nothing wrong with a bit of fun if you're single and consenting adults but a big no-no if you're in a relationship.
_________________Still the official cheeky one 
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 9:09 am |
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Spreadie
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Fri Apr 24, 2009 6:06 pm Posts: 6355 Location: IoW
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+1 Just make sure you wrap up. The consequences tend to be long term, and costly; to say the least.
_________________ Before you judge a man, walk a mile in his shoes; after that, who cares?! He's a mile away and you've got his shoes!
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 9:27 am |
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adidan
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 9:43 pm Posts: 5048
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A fair whack of my one night stands have ended up being mates, it's a good way to meet people.  Not sure my GF would see it like that if I did it now though. 
_________________ Fogmeister I ventured into Solitude but didn't really do much. jonbwfc I was behind her in a queue today - but I wouldn't describe it as 'bushy'.
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 9:33 am |
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hifidelity2
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Fri Apr 24, 2009 1:03 pm Posts: 5041 Location: London
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 9:50 am |
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l3v1ck
What's a life?
Joined: Fri Apr 24, 2009 10:21 am Posts: 12700 Location: The Right Side of the Pennines (metaphorically & geographically)
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I have never ever had a one night stand. It's just not in my nature.
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 10:33 am |
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ProfessorF
What's a life?
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 7:56 pm Posts: 12030
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Some of my longest relationships have been one night stands.
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 10:41 am |
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oceanicitl
Official forum cat lady
Joined: Fri Apr 24, 2009 8:04 am Posts: 11039 Location: London
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Did you include breakfast? 
_________________Still the official cheeky one 
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 10:47 am |
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ProfessorF
What's a life?
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 7:56 pm Posts: 12030
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Hey hey hey! What's all the pressure to settle down? You can't change me so don't try!
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 11:17 am |
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rustybucket
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Thu Jun 18, 2009 5:10 pm Posts: 5836
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+1 Despite our best efforts, we're agreeing again, Lev. 
_________________Jim
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 11:27 am |
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jonlumb
Spends far too much time on here
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 6:44 pm Posts: 4141 Location: Exeter
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I'm with Lev and Rusty on this one. There's only ever been the Wench, haven't even been out with anyone else. I consider myself very lucky in this regard.
_________________ "The woman is a riddle inside a mystery wrapped in an enigma I've had sex with."
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 11:28 am |
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ProfessorF
What's a life?
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 7:56 pm Posts: 12030
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FWIW, I can't shake the feeling that as I rapidly approach my mid-thirties, I really haven't slept with enough women. My twenties were a waste. I'd be a terrible partner at the moment. Gentlemen, to those of you who don't have this feeling, I am envious.
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 11:37 am |
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hifidelity2
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Fri Apr 24, 2009 1:03 pm Posts: 5041 Location: London
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If she has stayed the whole night then at least a Bacon Butty was always my rule of thumb
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 11:53 am |
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jonbwfc
What's a life?
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 7:26 pm Posts: 17040
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If she has tomato sauce, think about keeping her. If she has HP sauce, she's out the door  . I have, but not in quite a long time. I found I didn't really like them that much. I mean, it was fun but I've found it's better with.. as they say in Enter the Dragon, 'Emotional content'.
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Thu Oct 27, 2011 12:56 pm |
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rustybucket
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Thu Jun 18, 2009 5:10 pm Posts: 5836
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GTFO! Red sauce + Bacon = Evil
_________________Jim
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