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Europe Wants Total Ban On Smacking Kids In UK
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pcernie
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Joined: Sun Apr 26, 2009 12:30 pm Posts: 45931 Location: Belfast
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I was very aware of my size as a kid (now I'm just fat  ); if I hadn't been smacked as a kid I'd have run riot 
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 4:09 pm |
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Impactweapon
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Joined: Fri May 22, 2009 8:25 pm Posts: 69 Location: Stockholm-Sweden
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got a lad whos nearly 8 and a 15month old daughter, have never physically punished either of them ever
at the end of the day to me its just confirming to a kid that its ok to use violence to solve a issue and that can stay ingrained and takes a hell of a lot of "deprogramming" to get rid of that mentality, trust me im no hippy or pot head, quite the opposite, exarmy, doorman etc and have seen enough of violence being used to solve a problem.
but also where do you stop................... ive seen parents really laying into kids in public places and hear the excuse its my right to do so
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 4:28 pm |
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lacloss
Doesn't have much of a life
Joined: Fri Apr 24, 2009 7:48 am Posts: 1751 Location: Marbella Spain
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_________________ Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming... Damn, What a ride!!
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 4:49 pm |
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lacloss
Doesn't have much of a life
Joined: Fri Apr 24, 2009 7:48 am Posts: 1751 Location: Marbella Spain
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_________________ Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming... Damn, What a ride!!
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 4:53 pm |
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lacloss
Doesn't have much of a life
Joined: Fri Apr 24, 2009 7:48 am Posts: 1751 Location: Marbella Spain
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_________________ Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming... Damn, What a ride!!
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 4:56 pm |
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JJW009
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 6:58 pm Posts: 8767 Location: behind the sofa
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My personal experience of "smacking" is that it breeds an underlying resentment, leading to vindictive and underhanded behaviour and a very bitter childhood.
That said, when a kid (or adult for that matter) simply refuses to listen to reason and becomes a danger to themselves and others, I don't know what else you're supposed to do apart from smack them outside the head. There have been many times I've desperately wanted to violently discipline stupid selfish little barstuds, but I've always refrained.
I guess the logical and humane option to is simply have badly behaved people put down.
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 5:01 pm |
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phantombudgie
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I was smacked only a couple of times as a last resort. It was good for me in terms of being brought up as a human being rather than some [lifted] animal like a fair fraction of kids nowadays.
Kids have always acted up and been boisterous. But when their parents exert proper authority at least the kids know that, when they behave badly, what they are doing is wrong.
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 6:21 pm |
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DaftFunk
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Joined: Wed May 06, 2009 3:39 pm Posts: 478 Location: Peterborough
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How about another side of the coin, I was beaten as a child and into my teens by my parents. What started as smacking turned into something entirely different, I was not unruly, I was a child getting dirty, coming home a little late, broke a vase etc. Until my early teens I thought this was normal, society deems it OK to smack your kids, if this was not the case I would have realised a lot earlier, I may have tried to speak out.
In my opinion, find another way, there are plenty other methods of (not sure what you'd phrase it as, punishment)
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 6:48 pm |
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TheFrenchun
Officially Mrs saspro
Joined: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:55 pm Posts: 4955 Location: on the naughty step
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Who doesn't enjoy a bout of spanking every now and then 
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 6:50 pm |
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okenobi
Spends far too much time on here
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 6:59 pm Posts: 4932 Location: Sestriere, Piemonte, Italia
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What the hell's gotten into you lately?? Oh wait, don't answer that....
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 7:14 pm |
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lacloss
Doesn't have much of a life
Joined: Fri Apr 24, 2009 7:48 am Posts: 1751 Location: Marbella Spain
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I think she may be a little bored. 
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 8:22 pm |
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EddArmitage
I haven't seen my friends in so long
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I didn't see that last bit, Old Ben! That's wude!
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 8:30 pm |
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TheFrenchun
Officially Mrs saspro
Joined: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:55 pm Posts: 4955 Location: on the naughty step
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What do you think I mean?!?! :s
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 8:32 pm |
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okenobi
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Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 6:59 pm Posts: 4932 Location: Sestriere, Piemonte, Italia
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Stay out in the Dune Sea all by yourself for several decades and you start to forget that you're only supposed to use your power for knowledge and defence. Sorry bro.
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Tue Apr 27, 2010 8:57 pm |
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adidan
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I would, generally agree. I remember getting the belt, not the best memories. However, I would agree with it in instances say where a child is trying to put their hand in a fire. You can't reason with really young kids so a conditional tap on the legs to get their attention (not a beating) would be more preferable than a child on fire. But I would say used for conditioning, not punishment.
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