If being "not a bad lad" was the only requisite for having a relationship with a woman, far fewer people would be single.

The issue is somewhat more complex.

Can rule out appearance I think cos I'm ugly as **** yet my gf according to everyone is "stunning" dunno who on here said something about having g to be happy about yourself first when I still hate myself and I make that clear to her >:(

forgot to add I wasnt implying prof is ugly or anything I was trying to say that girls dont care about appearances I think