Brilliant! That actually made me lol which doesn't happen all that often!

Me too, and now people in the office are looking at me.

I can't laugh at it as I'm currently on site at a customers office.

still no reply I dont get it when the last texts says she hopes she will see me soon and now nothing I asked her in text if she would be free to meet up at the weekend and if it rains as an idea to go out for a trip in my car somewhere, what was wrong in asking that?

weekend ruined I guess

If you've had no reply from text why not call her? As someone else said her phone may be off, out of service etc etc.

Take the initiative and pick up the phone!

Remember you will probably kiss a lot of froglets before you find your princess so just relax and enjoy the dating game

not sure what you mean by kissing a lot of froglets? I kiss a lot of ppl when I go to the pubs, last one was a 36 year old but as you put it this girl really is the "Princess" I would phone but what if she doesnt want me to disturb her or something? etc

Give her a ring and ask if she's OK to talk. If she's busy, I'd assume she'd tell you, and if she doesn't want to talk she'd probably tell you she's busy anyway.

It's got to be easier than sitting there pondering, hasn't it?

will prob phone her tomorrow I spoke about it at the youth cafe with a strong aquantaince, she said definatly dont worry about it and dont take it as rejection etc if she doesnt answer but I think cos im not normal its effecting me more so I feel quite down about this "mess"

You're over-analysing everything Bratty, just let it wash over you, remember it's your own nervous system that's causing you stress, it has nothing to do with anything 'out there' it's all inside your head and you can choose how to react to the things that happen in your life.

Don't worry. Be happy.

probably am overanalysing but often doesnt feel like it Yesterday i was driving up a one way street, had my Indian music playing quite loud, and there she was walking towards me, adrenaline went right up and I felt as though I was going to faint, I shouted her name as she walked past but I think she was in a daydream plus my music was too loud for her to actually hear me, I parked the car on the yellow lines, not sure if you're allowed to do that but parked anyway and ran where she went but she vanished tried phoning her not long after that to see if she wanted a lift back home to her hometown but I think phone was switched off.

Play it cooler than that :p

what do you mean by that? dont understand All I seem to get a constant spell of bad luck

Sometimes that a whole lot easier said than done, Chris.

But Bratty, I'm going to have to agree with the others, if you're thinking about it so much it obviously matters a lot. So call, text, whatever, if she doesn't reply or isn't interested then I guess that's just life.

Whether it's easy to see it like that or not is irrelevant, it doesn't stop it from being the truth. Start by cutting out all that 'easier said than done' rubbish