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brataccas
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 9:14 pm
Posts: 5664
Location: Scotland
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just need to double check this as some people on this forum know about the model that Im doing photoshoot for, shes moving to my town, as I have barely any friends IN my own town (most of friends are 17+ miles away  ) I was considering asking this girl if we could hang out as friends as quite often I do feel rather bored and lonely sometimes in my own town when I cant be assed spending lots of diesel to see my semi faraway friends  so its normal to ask to be friends? has anyone on this forum asked anyone similar kinda thing? I know its a tough question cos when I make friends with people ive never asked, the friendship just slowly "develops" into a proper friendship etc  _________________
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| Sun Apr 25, 2010 7:18 pm |
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TheFrenchun
Officially Mrs saspro
Joined: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:55 pm
Posts: 4955
Location: on the naughty step
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don't ask her, just ask to spend time with her, if you both enjoy it, it will come with time.
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| Sun Apr 25, 2010 7:20 pm |
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brataccas
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 9:14 pm
Posts: 5664
Location: Scotland
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spending time with her will also hopefully take my mind off katie girl  been heavily depressed tbh since shes still not text me back etc :/ what a f**ked up month... _________________
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TheFrenchun
Officially Mrs saspro
Joined: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:55 pm
Posts: 4955
Location: on the naughty step
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try not too drown people on texts... sending more than 2-3 texts a day to a person is a lot, if they don't reply.
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JJW009
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 6:58 pm
Posts: 8767
Location: behind the sofa
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Nobody over the age of 7 says "will you be my friend" ... except on the social websites where you send a "friend request", which isn't quite the same.
However, as la Frenchune says you should just ask her if she wants to hang out some time. She's a stranger in town, so offer to show her around. You know where the best shops and stuff are and where to avoid. Maybe she might like a hand moving, so be your usual gentlemanly self and help her settle in. It might be exactly what she wants too, and if you become friends then that's great for both of you.
_________________jonbwfc's law: "In any forum thread someone will, no matter what the subject, mention Firefly." When you're feeling too silly for x404, youRwired.net
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EddArmitage
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 9:40 pm
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Location: ln -s /London ~
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How about, assuming photo-shoot number one goes OK, asking if she wants to do another one sometime? Possibly try and get a nice day and take some shots in a local park?
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finlay666
Spends far too much time on here
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 9:40 pm
Posts: 4876
Location: Newcastle
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This does not involve excessive hugging _________________TwitterCharlie Brooker: Macs are glorified Fisher-Price activity centres for adults; computers for scaredy cats too nervous to learn how proper computers work; computers for people who earnestly believe in feng shui.
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adidan
I haven't seen my friends in so long
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 9:43 pm
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Nor does it involve persistent texting or stalking.
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Fogmeister I ventured into Solitude but didn't really do much.
jonbwfc I was behind her in a queue today - but I wouldn't describe it as 'bushy'.
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TheFrenchun
Officially Mrs saspro
Joined: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:55 pm
Posts: 4955
Location: on the naughty step
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timark_uk
Moderator
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2009 6:11 pm
Posts: 12143
Location: Belfast
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Try just being someone's friend instead of asking for friendship.
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